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| Candlewood Inn: Brookfield, CT: Valerie & Kimber's Wedding Story |
Tuesday, July 20, 2010 |
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Kimber's mother knocked on the door of Valerie's hotel room that morning with a special present in her hand to deliver. It was a framed letter from Kimber to Valerie, a message he wanted her to read the morning of their wedding day. "Read it now," his mother advised, knowing the inevitable tears that would follow. The letter told Valerie just how much she meant to him, not just on that day but all the other days that had proceeded it. From the moment he first saw her on a soccer field many years before to the day he proposed, he has always known in his heart that they were meant to be together. In just a few hours they would exchange the vows that would make them officially husband and wife, but in the meantime he wanted to remind her of that once again before she slipped on that dress and walked down to meet him. Of course, sending a special letter the morning of their wedding day is no surprise to anyone that knows Kimber, and, more specifically, knows how he feels about Valerie. From his elaborate multi-state proposal journey to the way he pulls her in close every time he's next to her, one thing is abundantly clear: he's completely in love with her.
Good thing, too, since Valerie very much feels the same way. She has a bit of a different way of showing it, a bit more shy than her other half, she shows Kimber how she feels about him in the way that she looks at him, the way she stands by him as he follows every dream and the way her eyes fill up with tears when she hears him say outloud all the very same feelings that she holds in her heart. He won her over all those years ago and she couldn't be happier that their paths had crossed all those years ago back at college. Because since that day, her life has been that much better because he has been by her side. And from the moment their wedding ceremony began, there was little Valerie could do to keep the tears at bay because she knew they were about to begin something even deeper than the relationship they had been building for the last several years. Knowing how great it has been up until that point, she could only imagine the wonderful things that were in store for them as husband and wife.
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We started with Valerie at the Ethan Allen Hotel in Danbury where she was getting ready with her girls. Shortly before we arrived she had gotten the very sweet letter from Kimber, so she was just getting over the emotion of it all. Thankfully, she had already had her hair and make-up done by the crew over at Dawn's Pizzazz in Danbury. We took some time to photograph her beautiful accessories from her Paloma Blanca Gown and her Badgley Mischka shoes. Of course she did have a lot more incredible details, from her antique watch (which belonged to her mother) to her handkerchief which came from Europe. It was all filled with sentimental value, which made it all that much more romantic. Once Valerie's bridesmaids started pouring into the room we started to realize just how much attention to detail Valerie had. Her bridesmaids were all decked out in her version - from her J Crew dresses to their Anthropologie belts and their Bloomingdales necklaces it was all a part of Valerie's idea for the overall look of the day. After the flowers arrived from Floral Designs by Nancy, we spent some time with Valerie and her girls before we headed over to The Candlewood Inn in Brookfield where the ceremony and reception would take place.
The ceremony was a beautiful mix with Christian and Jewish elements and many sweet sentiments directly from Valerie & Kimber themselves and spoken by their justice of the peace. Both Valerie and Kimber took their turns fighting back tear during the emotion filled ceremony and there were many times when guests were reaching for the tissues themselves. Once the glass was broken and the reception began, CT Party Pro's took over and invited everyone to relax, hit the dance floor and celebrate with Valerie & Kimber. The floor was packed the rest of the night with everyone wanting their chance to crowd around the bride and groom and let them know just how happy they were for them as well. |
| Valerie had a mix of old and new details - new Ralph Lauren Romance perfume, new earrings from J Crew and a watch, a gift her father had given to her mother for her 25th birthday. |
Valerie had also gotten a Paloma's nest ring bowl for their rings.
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| The lace on Valerie's mantilla veil was the perfect compliment to her gown, picking up the lace detail on that as well. |
| A few more family heirlooms - all from either Valerie or Kimber's relatives. It's always nice when brides wear jewelry that has been passed down from one generation to another, it makes it all that much more sentimental. |
| All of the bridesmaids poured into the room right before Valerie put on her gown and stayed to help her with every little detail. |
| The light streaming into the window at the Ethan Allen Hotel gave us the perfect location to take some portraits of Valerie before heading outside. |
| It's always important to us to get a full-legnth shot, especially to include the cathedral length veil. |
| To get the shot on the right, Valerie was a total trouper, climbing onto the mulch in her five-inch heels. Thankfully it was worth it! |
| Valerie and her parents made the ride over to The Candlewood Inn in style - in an antique Rolls Royce. |
| When she arrived just minutes before the ceremony, Valerie couldn't keep the smile off her face, or get to the aisle soon enough. |
| Kimber was trying hard to fight back the tears when he saw Valerie appear at the end of the aisle. His brother, and best man, couldn't help but smile. |
| Not the first time Valerie had tears in her eyes that day, and definitely not the last. It was an emotion-filled day. |
| Kimber grinned at Valerie all throughout the ceremony. |
| Valerie & Kimber chose to have their ceremony slightly off-center on the grounds of the Candlewood, a bit different than usual. We loved it because it gave us the chance to incorporate both the water and the trees on the grounds. |
| The ceremony included both Christian and Jewish traditions, not to mention some tears and even a few laughs. |
| Valerie's father watches on as his daughter gets ready to say her vows. |
| The exchanging of rings is always very emotional for the bride and groom and their parents looking on as well. |
| Valerie let out a few more laughs while Kimber stopped the glass at the end of the ceremony. |
| Right after he stomped on the glass, this was the look on Valerie's face. I think it says it all. |
| One more big thing before the walk down the aisle hand-in-hand - their first kiss as husband and wife! |
| The bridal party was tons of fun - a mix of family and friends Valerie & Kimber had met when they were students together at Elmira College in NY. |
| We love photographing on the dock at the Candlewood, but it's not for the faint of heart. It's a little rocky, especially when their are boats whizzing by in the distance. Valerie and Kimber held onto one another and braved it for us. |
| Valerie and Kimber were really excited to have a few minutes to themselves to take in what had just taken place. |
| Kimber was very attentive, helping Valerie with her dress and veil. He got caught in it all once or twice, making Valerie laugh. |
| Back on solid ground, Valerie and Kimber got to snuggle into one another a bit before heading inside for the reception. |
| Some more beautiful flowers by Floral Designs by Nancy, the shades of ivory and pink created a very romantic setting. |
| Valerie & Kimber gave their guests a double gift - these boxes filled with treats and a donation in their names to the American Cancer Society. |
| They were completed connected throughout the first dance, as close as they could get to one another. |
| When the time came for the hora, you could tell there both very excited and just a bit nervous about being hoisted up on the chairs. |
| All the guys lifted Kimber straight up in the air...and knocked his head on beam in the middle of the ceiling. Thankfully, he was OK. Safe to say, Valerie was a little stunned too. |
| Both of their parents made heart-felt speeches for the bride and groom. |
| Then the Matron of Honor and Best Man - Valerie's sister and Kimber's brother - had their turn giving toasts. Each of them talked about just how proud they are of their siblings. |
| Right after dinner, the dancing was kicked off when Valerie and Kimber danced with their parents. |
| At the end of the night, all of the guests gathered outside for a sparkler send off for Valerie and Kimber. |
| Valerie & Kimber - we had such a great time with you both! Thank you for inviting us to be a part of your day! We hope you had an amazing time in Hawaii. Hope to catch up with you both sometime soon. |

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