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| Wainwright House: Rye, NY: Meghan & Marc's Wedding Story |
Thursday, August 12, 2010 |
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Seeing so many weddings and watching the way so many different couples interact with one another, we have learned quite a bit over the years. Not just about where to photograph what or which lighting conditions make for an optimal portrait, but about what really makes for strong connections between couples. We have learned this not only because we talk to our couples about what they love about one another, but because we watch for the little things that come through when there's not a word spoken. And one of the greatest things we have learned was solidified even more through our meeting and working with Meghan and Marc. They taught us that when you have found the one person in the world that is clearly perfect for you, something special happens. You become an even better version of yourself. You become more comfortable in your own skin, more confident to be who you really are because you know there is no longer any need to be anything else. You have found someone who has reassured you that all the things that you have always loved about yourself really are the things that make you loveable. You can try new things, take bigger chances because you know that no matter what you'll have that person by your side. And, what we think may be the most important, you can sing and dance around the house knowing that person not only won't judge you, they'll probably join you.
We had seen the sweet, gentle way Meghan and Marc interacted with each other during their rainy day engagement session in NYC back in May. We expected to see that again on their wedding day, and we did, tenfold. Not just when they were together either. You could see it with the smile on Meghan's face when she was told that Marc had arrived before the ceremony, with the look of unabashed excitment on Marc's face when he was told it was time to get into place because the ceremony was about to begin. Rob and I were both moved by the sweetness of their ceremony and the thoughtfulness of the vows they spoke to one another. It was during their reception that we saw something truly remarkable.
After very romantic first dance and a elegant dinner, Meghan and Marc took to the dance floor and let loose. They sang to one another at the tops of their lungs and moved perfectly in sync with each song, laughing and pulling each other close. And we weren't the only people captivated by them, several times throughout the night a circle formed around Meghan and Marc as friends and family cheered them on. It made me smile because I could just picture Meghan and Marc at home doing the very same thing - letting go, having fun and just being themselves, knowing that neither of them would ever judge them for a whacky dance move or random song choice because they'd rather jump in.
It was particularly moving to us because that very same scene wouldn't be unfamiliar in our house. Seeing the connection between Meghan and Marc - the gentle sweetness and the whacky fun-ness (totally a word), made us feel even luckier to not only do what we do for a living, but to have found one another. And having a job that makes you realize that all in one day, well that's pretty amazing.
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We arrived in the morning at the The Wainwright House in Rye and settled in since it would be where we would be spending the entire day. Meghan arrived shortly after we did, looking even more gorgeous than she always does; with hair and make-up done by the New York City based Once Upon a Bride. She was completely relaxed and enjoying the morning, not wanting to rush a single minute of the day. She spent some time with her mother and bridesmaids in the bridal suite at the Wainwright House, overlooking the Long Island Sound. We took that time to photograph Meghan's stunning Vera Wang gown and her Stuart Weitzman shoes. When the flowers arrived, hand delivered by Alice of Petals by Alice in nearby Pleasantville, everyone agreed that the shades of ivory and green were the perfect match for all of the fabulous preppy-inspired outfits that would be worn that day. The bridesmaids were dressed in short navy blue dressed with a bright kelly green sash and the Marc and the groomsmen wore khaki pants, blue blazers and pink patterned ties - very fitting attire for a wedding taking place at a historic mansion overlooking the Sound.
The ceremony took place right on the edge of the property, literally steps away from the water. The setting was matched by the equally romantic vows, readings and traditions of the ceremony. It was one of the hotter days in July, so once the ceremony was over many of the guests headed up to the much cooler tented area for the cocktail hour where they were greeted by the staff of Cornerstone Caterers, with plenty of refreshments. We took that time to walk around the beautiful property of the The Wainwright House with Meghan, Marc and their bridal party before dinner got underway. After a relaxing, multi-course dinner, the dance floor opened and Harborside Productions gave Meghan and Marc plenty of songs to dance to (my particular favorite, the bring-down-the-house dance off to Led Zeppelin's "Fool in the Rain"). The night came to an end with a sparkler send off and Meghan and Marc rushing through the crowd of friend and family cheering for them as they rode off into the night as husband and wife. |
| The drive to the The Wainwright House was very scenic and we were really enjoying taking in the sights of the neighborhood. So much so, that we could have easily driven right past the entrance. Thankfully, there was a sign to let us know we had arrived. |
| And quite a dramatic front entrance to boot. As beautiful as the house is itself, it's view of the Long Island Sound is just as impressive. |
| Meghan got ready in the bridal suite at the Wainwright House, giving us plenty of time to get some shots of her Vera Wang gown and Stuart Weitzman shoes. |
| Meghan's bouquet, made by Petals by Alice, had the same soft, romantic feel as her gown. |
| Before she was even in her gown, Meghan already looked gorgeous. Her hair and make-up were done by he New York City based Once Upon a Bride. |
| While Meghan's mother was helping Meghan with the back of her dress, Rob and I captured it from two different angles, one of the many advantages of having the two of us shoot together. Rob's shot is on the right, and mine is on the left. |
| Rob stayed at the top of the sprial staircase to grab this shot of Meghan on her way outside. |
| While Marc and the guys hid away (so they didn't see each other before the ceremony), we spent some time with Meghan and her girls. |
| The navy blue bridesmaid dresses and kelly green sashes were such a great mix of preppy and cheerful. A perfect choice for a summer wedding. |
| We also love the elegance added by the pearl necklaces. |
| We headed back inside before the ceremony to let Meghan and the girls cool off a bit (since it was so hot outside). We spotted this nearly all-white room upstairs and decided to get some more shots of Meghan. How gorgeous is she? The swept up hair was perfect with the strapless gown. |
| As it's becoming very clear, Meghan has a great sense of style - her gown, the bridesmaids outfits, etc. She definitely carried it through with her choice of accessories and cathedral-length Vera Wang veil. |
| Of course, Marc can hold his own in the style department as well. He selected all of the attire for the groomsmen. In fact, Meghan said that one of the things she liked right away about Marc was how good a dresser he was. |
| Before the ceremony, Marc signed the marriage certificate. Making it even more real that they were just moments away from being officially married. |
| The ivory, navy blue, pink and green were carried through with the flowers in the ceremony as well, all done by Petals by Alice. |
| While Meghan waited with her father to walk down the aisle, I stepped back to get this shot. |
| Marc's nephews were the ring bearers - the next generation of sharp dressers. |
| This is my shot of Meghan walking to meet Marc.... |
| ...And this is Rob's shot of Marc's reaction to seeing Meghan... |
| ...then he turned to capture Meghan's reaction back. |
| Meghan wiped away several tears during the ceremony, particularly when Marc read his vows to her. |
| As you can see, the Long Island Sound was directly behind the minister, creating quite a dramatic backdrop for the ceremony. |
| One of our favorite things is to capture the smiles that inevitably happen right after a kiss, especially the first one during a ceremony. |
| After the ceremony, Meghan and Marc headed off to get some shade under the tree before we spent some time with just the two of them. |
| We were loving the stonework throughout the property, a great mix with the lush greenery that surrounded it. |
| You would never tell it was nearly 100 degrees out, because Meghan and Marc didn't let the heat phase them one bit. They were too happy to let anything bother them at all. |
| On one side of the property, there was this maze of bushes that we knew would be perfect for a shot of the wedding party. Thankfully, they were all game to go climbing inside it. Totally worth it!! |
| While Meghan and Marc got ready to be announced into the reception, we took some time in the (very air conditioned) rooms of the mansion capturing the details of the tables. |
| Meghan and Marc were introduced as they walked down the large spiral staircase and their guests followed them into the library for their first dance. |
| Yet another example of the gentle sweetness between Meghan and Marc, just look at how they're holding each other. |
| Toasts were offered by Meghan's Maid of Honor and Marc's Best Man, his brother. |
| Once dinner was done, Meghan danced with her father who had quite a bit of fun twirling her all around the dance floor. |
| At the end of the night, Meghan and Marc were given a sparkler send off by their guests. Rob headed up to the balcony to grab this shot. |
And I grabbed this one from the ground - what better way to end the night than with a big kiss surrounded by sparklers?
Meghan and Marc, thank you so much for letting us share in your amazing day! We truly enjoyed getting to know you both and seeing what makes your love so special! |

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